Your Empty Nest Coach Podcast, Episode 30: I am not appreciated!

Cover image for the Your Empty Nest Coach Podcast Episode #30, Coach Christine with some coffee.
Hello, my Empty Nest Friend!
 

As a mom, unappreciative humans may surround you at all times. Some days it may feel like it is part of the job description. Is there even the slightest chance that you have created that yourself? Let’s think about that in today’s episode where I give you a little bit of tough love because feeling unappreciated is a lousy place to be.

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What You Will Learn in this Episode: 

  • What your thoughts have to do with how appreciated you feel
  • To think about who you want to show up as in the world even when your mind is confident that you are unappreciated
  • Consider using Pinterest for your future-you dreams (listener suggestion)

Episode Questions for You To Consider

  1. Do you currently identify with not feeling appreciated?
  2. When you have the thought that you are unappreciated, how do you feel?

Announcements

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🎙🎙🎙 New episode!🎙🎙🎙 Hello, my Empty Nest Friend! As a mom, unappreciative humans may surround you at all times. Some days it may feel like it is part of the job description. Is there even the slightest chance that you have created that yourself? Let's think about that in today's episode where I give you a little bit of tough love because feeling unappreciated is a lousy place to be. In this episode, I talk about who has the real control with unappreciative humans in your life. Take a listen, or read full transcript, found on my website (link in bio). https://youremptynestcoach.com/p30/ . 🐦What You Will Learn in this Episode: 🎙 What your thoughts have to do with how appreciated you feel 🎙 To think about who you want to show up as in the world even when your mind is confident that you are unappreciated 🎙 Consider using Pinterest for your future-you dreams (listener suggestion 🐦🐦🐦🐦🐦 #EmptyNest #NewEpisode #GreenPopsicleSticks #Quote #EmptyNestPrep #YourEmptyNestCoach #EmptyNestCoach #FridayThoughts #appreciation #appreciatingmom

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Your Empty Nest Coach Podcast, Episode 29: Christine, What Will I Do With My Time, and What Should I Do Next?

Hello, my Empty Nest Friend!
 

I can’t begin to tell you how much I needed this episode when I wrote it. Throughout our life, we experience change. Sometimes it is expected, sometimes it is not. When we are unable to be patient with ourselves through the transition, things can get a little off course and “boil over.” 

In this episode, I talk about the importance of a simmer in a beef stew and what that has to do with your life. 

Take a listen, or read the transcript, below.
 
⇓⇓⇓ More goodies below, too! Scroll all the way down ⇓ so you don’t miss anything! ⇓⇓⇓
 
Want to subscribe to this podcast? Great news – it is free!
You may either:
> Subscribe to my Thursday Thoughts about email for an email reminder every Thursday that includes a link to listen to the newest episode on my website, like the page you are on now.
OR
> Click here, and then choose your favorite podcast app – be sure to hit subscribe or follow, once you choose your favorite!
Let me know if you have any additional questions – as I am always happy to explain how podcasts work!

What You Will Learn in this Episode: 

  • The importance of “sitting in the simmer” in your life
  • Why beef stew is a good analogy for transitions in our life
  • Future you is your navigation system not the predictor of your future

Episode Questions for You To Consider

  1. Have you found future you yet?
  2. What was or is your biggest obstacle in finding future you?

Announcements

Episode Resources



Full Transcript

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🎙🎙🎙 New episode!🎙🎙🎙 Hello, my Empty Nest Friend! I can’t begin to tell you how much I needed this episode when I wrote it. Throughout our life, we experience change. Sometimes it is expected, sometimes it is not. When we are unable to be patient with ourselves through the transition, things can get a little off course and “boil over.” In this episode, I talk about the importance of a simmer in a beef stew and what that has to do with your life. Take a listen, or read full transcript, found on my website (link in bio). https://youremptynestcoach.com/p29/ . 🐦What You Will Learn in this Episode: 🎙The importance of “sitting in the simmer” in your life 🎙Why beef stew is a good analogy for transitions in our life 🎙Future you is your navigation system not the predictor of your future 🐦🐦🐦🐦🐦 #EmptyNest #NewEpisode #GreenPopsicleSticks #Quote #EmptyNestPrep #YourEmptyNestCoach #EmptyNestCoach #FridayThoughts #simmering #SitInTheSimmer #indecision

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Your Empty Nest Coach Podcast, Episode 28: The First Semester Transition: What to Expect and How Mom Can Help

Hello, my Empty Nest Friend!
 

I am thrilled to bring you this episode!

Not only is if overflowing with content that I wish I had known before my daughter headed off to school, but I also learned a few things.

My guest, Katy Oliveira, Host of the Collegehood Advice podcast, shares her advice and tips on navigating the first semester and how we, as mothers, may help our children.

Take a listen, or read the transcript, below.
 
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My Guest: Katy Oliveira, Host of the Collegehood Advice podcast

What You Will Learn in this Episode: 

  • Your role as benefactor
  • How grade notifications are handled in college, and a quick chat about FERPA
  • Campus resources that parents should be aware of for their child
  • What are challenges our child might face in the first semester
  • Katy’s best piece of advice

Episode Questions for You To Consider

  1. What are you most focused on for your child’s first semester?
  2. If you went to college, what are some defining moments from your first semester? Do you remember any?

Where to find this episode’s guest: Katy Oliveira, Host of the Collegehood Advice Podcast

Announcements

Episode Resources



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Become a GPS Exec, today!

You are preparing for the empty nest ahead as your child(ren) prepares, heads off to, and experiences college.

Your Empty Nest Coach Podcast, Episode 2: Is the Empty Nest Real?

Hello, my Empty Nest Friend!
 
Today we learn if the empty nest is a “real thing,” ways to combat it and the importance of a support group.
 
Thank you for taking time in your busy day to listen to me. You are the absolute best.
 
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Want to subscribe to this podcast? Great news – it is free!
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> Click here, and then choose your favorite podcast app – be sure to hit subscribe or follow, once you choose your favorite!
Let me know if you have any additional questions – as I am always happy to explain how podcasts work!

What You Will Learn in this Episode 

  • What really is Empty Nest syndrome? Is the syndrome a thing? 
  • Ways to combat the feelings of loneliness and sadness in the empty nest transition.
  • You are not alone – and knowing that helps.
  • A glimpse into Christine’s balloon twisting days.

Announcements

Questions

  • Have you experienced what I did with balloon twisting community, in your life and what was the area?
  • Do you have the support you need for the transition ahead?

Episode Resources

Full Transcript

Become a GPS Exec, today!

You are preparing for the empty nest ahead as your child(ren) prepares, heads off to, and experiences college.

The Stages of Life that are Ending – Observed in a Thistle Plant?

This was originally posted on an old blog of mine in June of 2017.


I went on a walk/kind-of-a-jog, this morning, and kept seeing thistle plants.

I got all metaphorical looking at them. I mean, here is a tough plant. Considered a weed around here, it has solid stalks that hold the flowers in place as they sit in a variety of stages of life. A few ends are not even open yet, some are in full blossom, and others have turned brown and have served their purpose. A lone bee sits on one end gathering pollen, and I can’t help but see my life in this plant.

The stages of life that are ending; careers and jobs that have served me well; friendships that may have had their season; the journeys that are about to begin; and the life experiences that keep me grounded through the happy and the suck moments in life.

It is easy to get caught up in the moments at the end of the flower but remembering the big picture and that it all fits together (even though I may not see it now), can keep me grounded and make the next season even better.

Hmmm, this is apparently where my mind goes when I don’t listen to podcasts.

Become a GPS Exec, today!

You are preparing for the empty nest ahead as your child(ren) prepares, heads off to, and experiences college.